New Year’s Resolution 2024

I got sick after Thanksgiving and I continue to run behind. Christmas Cards have hit a snag and not gone out (yet?). And I didn’t think I was going to make any New Year’s resolutions this year either. (I often don’t). But inspiration has arrived (a week late), so here is my 2024 New Year’s resolution:

I resolve to update my estate planning paperwork this year.

To begin with, my will is very out-of-date. I need to change the primary and secondary executors, and I probably need to change the secondary beneficiaries as well. While you should update your will with every major life change (marriage, divorce, children, etc.), it’s also a good idea to review your will periodically as other circumstances change. For example, if one of your executors or beneficiaries dies or becomes estranged from you. Or as your net worth grows. Maybe your designated beneficiary would not be capable of handling a larger inheritance, or would need assistance to do so. This Kiplinger’s article includes 12 reasons you should update your will, including a few I hadn’t even imagined (like losing the hardcopy of your will). In my case, no major life events have affected my will, but some minor ones have, and I wasn’t periodically reviewing my estate paperwork, so I didn’t notice that I would no longer be satisfied with the outcomes of my estate settlement as written.

I’ve mentioned this before, but it’s really important to stay on top of this paperwork. In the military, I saw death benefits distributed to ex-spouses rather than current spouses or children simply because the service member had not updated their paperwork. In my own life, I’ve seen what happens when someone dies with an outdated will or when the named executor for a couple has a conflict of interest. It’s painful to experience an estate being settled in ways that you know go against the deceased’s wishes at the time of their death. And it can even lead to legal battles or extended probate that can be very draining for the estate, the executor(s), and the loved ones. Do the work now so that your loved ones don’t have the hassle later. Do the work now so that the government doesn’t wind up with assets you could have avoided giving them. Do the work now so that your beneficiaries are provided for in the way you wish them to be. Whatever your motivation, use it to propel you into action.

While I’m at it, I’m also going to update my durable power of attorney and my advanced directive for healthcare. Interestingly, when I became eligible for VA healthcare, I was required to do separate advanced directive for healthcare paperwork with the VA – they would not accept the one I already had. The VA paperwork, however, did not need to be drafted by a lawyer or notarized. I simply filled it out at my VA healthcare facility. However, since each VA facility is different, I don’t know whether my current VA facility (in a different state) still has my advanced healthcare directive paperwork on file and whether they accept it. Even if they do, contact information for my designated healthcare representatives has changed. [So that’s a reminder for me to check with my current VA facility and ensure it’s squared away.] Also, now that more healthcare “paperwork” is online, many healthcare systems are requiring that you bring a copy of your directive to the facility to be entered into their online systems. So don’t assume that a loved one bringing a copy of your advanced directive while you’re in the hospital receiving care will be sufficient anymore – you may need to have gotten it accepted by the relevant healthcare system ahead of time.

We don’t carry life insurance as we have no income that needs to be replaced or children that need provided for, but if you do have life insurance, you would also want to periodically review it to make sure you have enough coverage for your current needs and to update beneficiaries as necessary.

If you are in the military or are an eligible veteran, you also should periodically check DEERS (the Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System) to make sure your beneficiary information is up-to-date and correct. This includes the who, how, and where. Make sure the DoD knows who all of your beneficiaries are, how much you want to leave to each (percentages of benefits), and how to contact each of them. If you don’t review this data and make sure it’s current, this is how money winds up going to an ex-spouse or other beneficiary you no longer want your death benefits to go to.

Additionally, you should periodically review the beneficiaries on any investments that you have. Make sure your accounts have primary and secondary beneficiaries that reflect your current desires. IOW, make sure your money would go to the people you want it to go to. This often changes over time, so you can’t just “set it and forget it.” (Unless you don’t care what happens to your money after you’re gone.)

In summary, if you care what happens to your hard-earned money after you’re gone, you should review your estate planning paperwork periodically (and in conjunction with every major life event) to keep it up-to-date and make sure it reflects your desires as you progress through life and circumstances change.

Since I very much care what happens to my hard-earned money, in 2024 I resolve to:

  • Update my advanced medical directive/living will
  • Update my medical power of attorney
  • Update my VA advanced medical directive
  • Submit my updated advanced medical directive/living will to my healthcare system (specifically to the hospital ER I use when injured)
  • Update my will
  • Review the beneficiaries on my investment accounts and update as necessary
  • Make sure my designated executor knows where to find my updated estate paperwork

Does anyone else want to commit to updating their estate paperwork in 2024? Let me know in the comments – we can be accountability buddies.

Financial Concerns – How a U.S. government debt default would affect my military family

Right now, the U.S. political parties are at an impasse over raising the debt ceiling. According to the latest projections from the Treasury Department, the U.S. government could start defaulting on its debt as soon as 5 June (2023).

The U.S. government has never defaulted on its debt. If it were to do so now, the effects would be felt throughout the world, due in part to the use by other nations of U.S. Treasury bills and U.S. dollars. Not to mention possible effects on the U.S. stock markets and those reverberations globally.

Such brinksmanship has happened a few times previously in the U.S. And government shutdowns have also happened before (as they are threatened to possibly happen again now). But this time it feels different, for a couple of reasons.

My primary reason for concern is the bitter, unyielding, mean-spirited partisanship that we have seen on display in the Congress (and the U.S. writ large), for several years now. I no longer have confidence that politicians will be rational actors, concerned for the well-being of the nation. Instead, they prefer to fight like junkyard dogs, concerned only for their definition of “winning.”

My more immediate cause for concern is the fact that my primary bank, USAA, has previously given its members “guarantees” on their government pay during previous government shut-downs, in the form of depositing our paychecks, pensions, and disability checks as normal and making the funds available to us despite not having received the money (yet) from the government. This has been invaluable to many military families.

But USAA suffered its first ever loss last year ($1.3B net), and I don’t know whether they will again front us the money if the government shuts down, which would cause a serious liquidity issue for our family.

To be sure, USAA is not required to make funds available in our accounts which the U.S. government has not released. They have done so in the past as a courtesy. If they were unable or unwilling to do so this time, I would not hold that against them. But we would definitely have to tighten our belts!

Right now, military pension and VA disability are our only sources of income. Spousal Unit started teaching a course at the local college this year, but SU’s summer course didn’t get enough enrollment, so no teaching income this summer (right when it could matter most).

We are very fortunate that we have investments, which we could use to pay our bills, but we’d really rather not pay a higher tax bill this year because we needed to cash out some equities to cover an unexpected loss of income due to political shenanigans.

What about an emergency fund? Aren’t I always recommending one? Yes. Touché, dear reader. In fact, we had been in the process of rebuilding our emergency fund when this manufactured crisis reared its head. We currently have only 1-2 months of expenses in our emergency fund (which is still better than nothing!). The money lasting 1-2 months is predicated upon us turning off pay-in-full autopay on our credit cards (which we were using for home improvements) and only paying the minimum balances until the crisis is over.

We will also have to postpone the financial and physical help we were planning to extend to several family members this year. Financially, we can’t give what we don’t have, and the physical help would require travel plus the purchase of materials for the project, and that suddenly isn’t in the budget anymore.

Additionally, we are concerned about My Boomer Parent, who would lose their Social Security check if the government defaults on its debt and shuts down. We have always been financially secure enough to assist them until now, but losing all of our income could make us unable to help them this time. (Or, again, we could help them by dipping into our investments and paying a higher tax bill to cover government malfeasance.)

We have been living a comfortable FIRE lifestyle, cash-flowing our expenses from our secure military pension. But we have lived much more frugally in the past, so we have skills to draw upon.

Belt-tightening Measures: During the ride to my medical appointment this week, Spousal Unit and I discussed the expenses we could trim. Cable TV, which we’ve only had since I became chronically ill, would be first to go. We will also be eating down the pantry, which is full of staples like lentils, rice and beans, and the chest freezer, which is full of meat bought on sale, and only buying fresh produce from the store.

We also have some canned meat (chicken, tuna) in our pantry, as well as plenty of rice noodles. Proteins stretch further when served in dishes like soups, stews, stir-frys, casseroles, etc. [Learned that in Survival School!] So we’ll be stretching our meals with noodles, rice, beans, etc.

Thanks to a tip from the blogger known as Military Dollar, we have a stockpile of dehydrated refried beans in our pantry. They’re a great staple and we eat them at least once a week. All you have to do is add water and heat!

We can easily catch fresh fish here, which we have been eating about once a week – we can eat fish more often. We learned from Alaskans to substitute fish for other proteins in dishes like spaghetti or lasagna.

We don’t have much of a garden yet. We currently grow lemon grass, ginger, and pineapples. Growing more produce is something we’ve been wanting to do, though we don’t have much land. We will be able to harvest seagrapes once they mature late this summer. We typically make syrup from them, as we haven’t been able to make it set for jelly. We could probably also harvest coconuts from obliging neighbors. As long as we buy some limes, we should be able to prevent scurvy. 😉

We will also review our accounts for recurrent charges. We don’t have very many – we try to avoid monthly subscriptions – but it’s always good to periodically review as they can creep in.

Rainy season has begun in South Florida, so we will be watering our plants less, which should help reduce our water bill. Cutting cable TV will help with our electric bill. We have plenty of books to read, and can get more from our public library (including with the Libby app).

Other Income Streams: Spousal Unit will be teaching again in the Fall, which will bring in a little income. If necessary, they could teach more classes per semester, which would bring in more (non-federal) income. I could consider monetizing this blog. We could withdraw money from our investments. We will almost certainly use up our emergency fund.

Stop-Gap Measures: We could look at Home Equity Line of Credit (HELOC) interest rates and compare them to the interest rates on our credit cards. It might be cheaper to apply for a HELOC than to run up credit card bills, if the rates are more favorable. We could also look into loans against our equities, which I know very little about, but have learned about recently. We could also turn off the “reinvest interest and dividends” option on our investments, so that these would be paid to us directly, rather than being reinvested.

To be clear, Spousal Unit and I will be okay. It’s (hopefully) just a short-term liquidity issue. Many of my chronically ill/disabled friends will feel the pain of a default/shutdown much more direly, especially the ones whom the government prevents from having assets. I am acutely aware of our privilege.

I’m blogging about this for several reasons:

  1. To reduce my stress by thinking through my options.
  2. To highlight the effects of the default/shutdown on military families (and government employees, and seniors, and the disabled, and…)
  3. To acknowledge that the current U.S. political climate is making me reconsider my retirement plan. Our military pension and VA disability benefits are not as fiscally secure as they once were.
  4. To consider the ripple effects through our family if we can’t help family members due to our own lack of financial security. A big enough crisis takes down us all.

Bottomline: Given today’s political climate, it would behoove us to increase our emergency fund to 6-12 months worth of expenses, as a shock absorber, whenever we’re able to do that. In the meantime, we’ll brush off our extreme frugality knowledge and skills and tighten out belts. We’ll also explore stop-gap liquidity measures and re-evaluate our retirement plan.

Note: While I rarely talk about politics on this blog, as this post shows: personal finance doesn’t happen in a vacuum – politics are embedded in finance and vice versa.

Note: If you, too, need to tighten your belt, and you’d like some frugal ideas, I recommend The Tightwad Gazette books (also complied in one volume now as The Complete Tightwad Gazette), written by the Frugal Zealot, Amy Dacyczyn. She’s one of the OG’s of frugality, FIRE’d *before* FIRE was a movement, *and* did it all as an enlisted member’s military spouse. Her book(s) are chock-full of great frugal ideas.

No Spend January – Results

So how did I do at not spending any discretionary income in January? Well, I did spend more than $0, but I have no regrets.

As planned, I spent discretionary income for one restaurant meal – our quarterly dinner on the way home from medical Botox injections. Spousal Unit & I thoroughly enjoyed it, as usual. [We ate in our vehicle, because we’re still not dining indoors.] We also bought lunch at the grocery store on this trip, but one could argue that belongs in the groceries category, rather than discretionary income. Either way, it’s what we do once every quarter, and I always enjoy it very much.

Other than that planned expense, I also spent discretionary income this month on presents for a couple of family members. In addition to these presents, we also paid for postage to pass along a few things we no longer use to 1. a family member and 2. a friend who wanted them. [Downsizing for the win!]

And I bought more anticavity fluoride mouthwash, which arguably would fall under a budget line item for sundries, but it is notable as the only thing I bought from Amazon this month.

So I did spend some discretionary income this No Spend January but I still consider it a win because the spending fast *did* reset the profligate mindset I had in December.

[Note: When I reconciled my credit card statement for January, it reminded me that I also spent for Patreon support of my favorite podcast, The Golden Ratio. Gotta remember those subscriptions!]

I was strongly tempted once this month to get takeout, but was saved from myself by the fact that the restaurant was closed when I attempted to place an order. (Thus leading to my discovery that they’re only open for breakfast and lunch.) Since then, I have had no major cravings for takeout.

I was also tempted several times to buy things I need/want for ongoing house renovations (which arguably are also things one could plan for in one’s budget). But I resisted because the greater goal was to reset my spending mindset.

Since I am an abstainer, once I go off the rails in December, I need a spending fast in January to get back on track. (Resetting from ALL to NOTHING.) However, it is also true that I could just set aside a designated amount to spend during the holidays and stick to my budget, and hopefully that would prevent me from getting into the SPEND mindset. Maybe I’ll try that this year.

As far as the criticism that some people manipulate the challenge by shifting their spending to the month before or the month after a no-spend month? To be fully transparent, I do intend to order some of those home renovation items in February. My goal for January was to reset my spending mindset, which I believe I have done. But the projects still need to be completed.

However, I will continue to try to resist takeout meals in February. We have house guests coming in March, so I hope to defer my eating out and entertainment spending until then.

In the mean time, we will continue to eat down the pantry, and we will continue to catch fresh seafood. It’s really not a deprivation to avoid takeout when you have the ocean’s bounty to (sustainably) enjoy.

RESULTS: I did not succeed in spending no discretionary income in January, but I spent in alignment with my values (one treat meal, presents for family, healthcare item, podcast that brings me joy).

CONCLUSION: I found that this No Spend January made me reflect on the excesses of the holidays (not only spending but also eating). I think I’ll try this year to resist the temptation to buy ALL THE THINGS and eat ALL THE THINGS by being mindful of the fact that I am an abstainer and that it is so easy for me to get derailed by the holidays, and by enacting some safeguards ahead of time to keep me from getting off track and needing to spend at least a month afterward recovering.

ACKNOWLEDGEMENT: I acknowledge that it is a privilege to have discretionary income, and that it is a privilege to have enough money to be able to splurge at the holidays. It is also a privilege that I did not have any emergencies come up during January to force me to spend money, discretionary or otherwise.

BOTTOMLINE: No Spend January *did* reset my spending mindset, as expected. If you are a moderator, you may not need this or find it helpful. If you are an abstainer, give it a try and see what you think. It might be just the ticket to get you back on track.

Curating our lives

We’ve still got too much stuff for our small house. So we’re sifting through it, piece by piece, item by item. To use a current buzzword, we’re “curating” our lives, winnowing down to the essentials. The things that are beautiful or useful, as William Morris said.

‘Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be beautiful or believe to be useful.’

William Morris

It’s difficult *not* to accumulate stuff in America, given our consumerist, capitalist society. Manufacturers and merchants use psychology to manipulate us, to entice us to buy more, to spend more. Growing up in a soup of advertising, we assume consumption is what one does and we influence each other to do it, reinforcing the messages we see every day.

In the early Nineties, Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin challenged us to figure out what our personal “enough” was. Their book, Your Money or Your Life, was more than just a challenge to figure out how much money you need in order to pay your bills without working. They were also challenging us to figure out how much “stuff” we really needed to be happy, and how we can focus outward instead of inward, sharing with others when we have more than enough.

How much stuff do I need to be happy? The first time I went to Saudi Arabia, we stayed in 10-person tents in very basic conditions. We each had a cot and a foot locker (to keep the rats and spiders out of our stuff). The tent had one light bulb – the entire tent was either “light” or “dark.” And the tent was an open bay – no privacy.

But over time, as we returned to this base on future trips, the accommodations gradually got somewhat upgraded. We each got a nightstand. Then we each got a small lamp for our nightstand. That felt like a huge luxury – we could each have light when we wanted it, without having to negotiate with the entire tent’s inhabitants! It felt like such a luxury. Eventually, we even got dividers for our tents, so we could each have a small private section of the tent. That meant we could grab naps when we needed them, without being disturbed by other people’s lights or noise.

We really had very little, but it felt like enough. In fact, it felt like luxury. (Those lamps – a big deal!) And when I came home from these trips, the amount of stuff I had in my house felt overwhelming. SO MUCH STUFF! Far more than the basics plus a little luxury. Far more than “enough.” Rather than making me happy, my stuff was stressing me out.

Every time, I’d vow to get rid of extraneous stuff. I wanted to have that same feeling at home as I did overseas – that I had the amount of stuff that made me grateful. But American life is also overly busy, and I’d get distracted after maybe giving away a box or two of stuff or selling a few things.

So here we are, many years later, still surrounded by too much stuff. We’ve been able to give away some things this past year to people who could really use them, which feels good. But we still have a ways to go.

Wish me luck as I use this No Spend January to reflect on my spending and face the fact (again) that I already have more than enough.

Feeling Resolute

What can I say? After years of no New Year’s resolutions, this year I’m overflowing with them. Mostly because I seem to have gotten an energy bump this January, so I’m taking advantage of it.

This particular resolution, if that’s what you want to call it, is to spend no money in January. IOW, this January I am reigning in my discretionary spending. I tend to be perhaps a little too generous/spendy during the holidays, so I find being intentional about my spending in January helps me reset that spending mindset (which is strongly encouraged and reinforced by all the holiday marketing!).

I find that I get into a mindset of not being as critical of my spending during the holidays, and this helps me reset so that I stop and think before I spend. Plus, an uber frugal January helps offset the excesses of December and get my budget back on track.

Although I got the idea from Mrs. Frugalwood’s “January Uber Frugal Month Group Challenge,” I don’t participate in her groups when I do my January reset. For me, it’s enough to know that it’s January and I’m on a spending fast. However, if group support would be helpful for you, consider joining her group challenge next year. (I don’t know if this year’s groups are still open.)

I acknowledge that it’s a privilege to have discretionary income (money left over after paying bills, buying gas & groceries, etc.). And that it’s a privilege to be able to spend freely (however one defines that) during the holidays. When I was young, my family did not have that privilege, and I am grateful for it now.

So far, it’s January 10th and I haven’t spent any money. But I will be making my quarterly trip to the VA hospital for medical Botox injections later this month, and I plan to stop for Mexican food on the way home – my quarterly treat. (AKA, one “cheat day” from my spending fast.)

Otherwise, no restaurant meals this month. (Which we’re still getting to-go, because COVID.) We’ve got plenty of food in our pantry and freezer (also a privilege), and of course we can buy groceries as part of our normal monthly expenses. And no rationalizing other discretionary spending.

Hopefully after a month of resisting the urge to spend, I can break the holiday-inspired attitude of “I see it, I like it, I want it, I got it.” The January uber frugal money fast usually does the trick.

[This approach works for me because I am an abstainer, not a moderator. If you are a moderator, perhaps a different approach would work for you. Or perhaps you moderate your spending during the holidays and don’t need to get back on track after the holidays because you never got off-track.]

Do you splurge over the holidays? What techniques/tricks/hacks do you use to get your budget back on track in January? Or do you set a spending budget for November/December and stick to it? Please comment below.